JR sites going down...
Using Jamroom
andrusito:thanks, but if the guys behind JR cannot figure it out, I hardly believe I can.
Our recommended way to setup a server is in this guide:
https://www.jamroom.net/brian/documentation/guides
it is of course not the only way to setup a server. Your server is setup differently and something in there is causing issues. We can offer suggestions but cant really debug your server for you.

. Probably your server company doesn't want to do that for you either so it kind of is left up to you like it or not unfortunately.