Mutual Follow "Friends" button - plus Message
Design and Skin Customization
I'm not so much interested in the 'cometchat message' part of this being applied on my site, but I think the ability to quickly and easily know/see whether someone you are following is following you back and changes to a 'friend' would be a WONDERFUL improvement for Jamroom. It's something I've actually missed from back in Ning, and continues to confuse my members.
Think of it this way- if you are 'following' someone who's walking along the beach, they may not notice you're following them even though you're throwing pebbles at them to get their attention, and of course it's hard to talk with them. If on the other hand they stop, wait for you and you both start walking together, you are then 'friends' rather than merely followers and can communicate easily. Being friends is different from being a follower.
On jamroom there is no ONE place where one can obviously see that the connection circuit is complete from both parties. You can be someone's 'follower' forever but they can still not be following you and so you can't communicate as 'friends'.
In ning if someone 'followed' you, instead of a passive notification that merely shows they are following you, you'd get an INVITATION link to follow them back and become Friends. You could ignore the invitation or click it to quickly complete the circuit. Jamroom sends you a notice that someone has started following you- but there's no action link included in the notice to facilitate completing the connection both ways, and there's no visible differentiation between a one way follow and a two way completed connection.
If there was a new button or indicator that readily shows once a member is now your 'friend' (following connection has been completed both ways), then you would right away know the you are BOTH now following each other and private contact is possible. Also would love to see a QUICK ACTION LINK in the 'following' notification that enables one to instantly follow the person back, right from the notification link.
My members would definitely welcome this!